Aug 24, 2021 09:48
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I think it's far too formal for my, my way of being

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Talking with people about marriage
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Man: Boring, ha, ha, ha. The church is hot. Nobody wants
to be in the wedding. Receptions are always fun. Everybody gets together. They dance, have a good time.

Woman: It was a nice wedding. It was beautiful; sun was shining and we got married at the justice of the peace.

Man: I don't like weddings. I don't think it's ...
I think it's far too formal for my, my way of being.

Man: I love weddings, particularly Italian weddings.

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What does "I think it's far too formal for my, my way of being" mean?


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Discussion

Boris Shapiro Aug 25, 2021:
More likely it's just spoken text with repetitions to fill pauses.
Taña Dalglish Aug 24, 2021:
I think that the first "my" would make more sense if it were "me", i.e. "I think it's far too formal for **me**, my way of being." In other words, the Man prefers a more relaxed approach to their big day. Example: An informal wedding is usually held during the day in a home or another spot that isn't a house of worship. It has a simple meal or refreshments at the reception and features fewer than 50 guests. The bride and groom typically have only one attendant.
What is a relaxed wedding?
A memorable big day, super-stunning wedding décor, and a festive reception don't have to come with all of the formality of a traditional black-tie wedding. ... Instead, casual weddings put the emphasis on fun and allow for couples to express their laid-back style.

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+6
6 mins
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I would prefer something more informal.

He's saying he prefers a more relaxed lifestyle and thinks weddings don't fit his way of life.

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Note added at 6 hrs (2021-08-24 16:31:57 GMT)
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"Way of being" means the sort of person he is and how he likes to live.
Note from asker:
Thank you so much, Charlotte
What does "way of being" mean?
Thank you
Peer comment(s):

agree AllegroTrans
41 mins
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agree Sajad Neisi
1 hr
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agree Yvonne Gallagher : it's speech so no problem with the 2 "my". Not about the type of wedding. This man is unlikely to get married at all since marriage doesn't suit his lifestyle
2 hrs
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agree philgoddard
3 hrs
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agree Tina Vonhof (X)
4 hrs
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agree Jameela Hassan
22 hrs
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thank you so much, Charlotte"
+1
17 mins

overly serious/stiff/ceremonious

Think he enjoys something more informal, relaxed and fun.
Note from asker:
Thank you so much, Nadja
Peer comment(s):

agree AllegroTrans
30 mins
neutral Yvonne Gallagher : you haven't dealt with "way of being"
1 hr
Does not suit who he is as a person / his personality / his character
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