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Our children are only visitors to our house, and sadly.....
…Our children are only visitors to our house, and sadly, every visit comes to an end. When the time comes, we all have to let them go build their own homes and receive their own visitors. We can show the path they may follow, but cannot live their lives for them. I only hope that one day I will cope with this inevitability with dignity, but never let them leave my heart.
May 16, 2012 18:51: lorenab23 changed "Level" from "PRO" to "Non-PRO"
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Discussion
The poem is beautiful!
They are sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you.
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness.
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He also loves the bow that is stable.”